I enjoy casual conversations and focused discussions that prompt more questions to push beyond a simple “yes” or “no’ answer, probing for more explanation. That’s real engagement, and a good time. Here are random questions I’ve came across in my daily life.
Do you do more listen or talking? Might it be good for you to shift that balance? (What are you looking for when you interact with people? Does what you discuss and how you do it typically lead in that direction? If not, what could you do that might serve you better?)
From Gregory Stock Ph.D. The Book of Questions.