Friendships, networks, and systems are all two-way streets – don’t expect them to be there for you if you are not already there for them.
When it comes to building reliable allies, it’s essential to pay it forward.
If you want a good friend, be one first.
If you want to leverage a network, be an active participant first.
If you want to leverage a system, be more than a cog in the wheel. Be an active and visible part of it first.